The difference "-ly" makes

In my law school elder law class, we discussed how being an "elder" is often honored and admirable, but "elderly" is nearly a derogatory term.

Jane Gross's New York Times blog, the New Old Age, includes this discussion about terms often used for elders in our society.

The International Longevity Center in New York City and the Aging Services of California have compiled a stylebook "to guide media professionals through the minefield of politically correct and politically incorrect ways of identifying and portraying the elderly."

For example,

[In addition to sparing use of "elderly," and avoiding "senior citizen" and "golden years,"] “feisty,” “spry,” “feeble,” “eccentric,” “senile” and “grandmotherly” are also unwelcome terms, patronizing and demeaning, as is calling someone “80 years young.”

The "Wollongong Senior Citizens Centre" photo is just for kicks. Maybe it should be reworded, "Older Adults Centre"?

(Photo by vanessapr; used by permission.)